Professional Women in a Bollywood Daze?

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Re: Professional Women in a Bollywood Daze?

@sadzzz

hahaha… yeah some actually do thik like that

Angel Eyes, hmmm no marriage aint a gamble. Its a very special relationship based on trust, understanding, communication and love… if u go into a marriage thinknig he’ll change or wont change… or with all these if’s and but’s,.. u shouldnt be marrying that person… u should go into the relationship with a clear conscience of what ur getting urself into.. and at least know the person enough to know what they are like, what their expectations are of u… and what YOUR expectations are of them.. and if u dont know… then u need to talk things through before saying ur “qabools”

it is a gamble…can u guarantee that your marriage will be successful before you get married? no you cant…it is a gamble in the sense that either you win or you lose.

americans get to know each other for yrs before they get married. apparently it doesnt make a difference…the divorce rates are soaring high in the states. why? because people change their views, their way of thinking, they fall out love etc etc. There is no guarantee that the person you got to know before marriage will be the same person after marriage.

the only thing you have is the quran and sunnah to follow.. if you follow the ways of the prophet (SAW) and his wives…you have a good chance of making your marriage work.

anyway this is off topic.