Problems & Difference faced by Punjabi/Urdu Speaking Couples?

I have seen some Punjabi/Urdu Speaking Couples.They do have some issues.They are of cultural and social nature.Like culture of “Adab n Tameez” Vs “Open and Frank”.Speaking “fast” Urdu vs “slow” urdu.Food Differences:“Palao” Vs “Biryani”.“Lassi” Vs “Milk Shake”. Sri Pae Vs Nihari. Sarsoon ka saag Vs palak Paneer. Paan vs ???Different Interpretations.Differences in Weddding ceremonies.These are the two pakistanis ethnicites that mostly interact and some time intermarry.but just wanna know abt the differences from personal experiences!

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Well very silly thread because
are u assuming that when a punjabi marries a punjabi
or urdu speaking marries an urdu speaking they dont have issues?
please go and watch tom and jerry dont create division amongst Pakistanis.

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:smack:

i dont even get it .. how are punjabi and urdu speaking people different? or is he living in another world???

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I think I get what you're saying. Yeah it could be a problem. How? I wont go into detail as punjabis here will start beating me up :p

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can u explain some of their issues. i don't see any real issues here.

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idher ayo dua mujhay batao i won't do anything to u.

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Well... even tho some people cant speak punjabi or urdu. They still understand it. Its not hard if you kno one of the languages. And if it is still hard. translate it in english i suppose.
There aint even a issue.

is tom punjabi :hmmm:

aap bakhsh dein gi bki nahin bakshain ge :p

LOOOOOOOOLLLL!!!

ummmmm.. i think he is how hes always after poor jerry.. Bajaraaaa awwww

Its amazing to me how one can make a problem out of saag and palak:smack:

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Tell me about it. It is not just Punjabi marrying an Urdu speaking person, it's a Punjabi marrying a Sindhi as well! Sindhi urdu accent is a bit heavy on the ears!

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palak paneer is just an unholy combination. now palak with chicken or gosht :yummy: and saag with makai ki roti :hayaa:

sorry what was the question? :blush:

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its been over 10 years since i had maki ki roti with saag :hayaa:

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Its hard for punjabiz to compromise on food . Everything else , we can take it :p

nah yaar mujh se na daro main punjabi thori na hoon ;)

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which punjabi eats palak paneer? only our sikh punjabi friends eat that. r u talking abt those punjabis the one with pugg?

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I am only talking abt pakistani punjabi and pakistani urdu speaking people.both cultures n grt and on the most part get along beautifully.just wana know the nitties n gritties.the differences and how will it effect a mix couples.eg food? culture? styles?

if its about karchi and lahori people then i see ur point ...
i think urdu speaking people think punjabis doesnt know how to cook or something like that...one of my cousin is married in urdu speaking and she had very hard times living among them ..generally a woman doenst like the 'dictation' in the kitchen from anyway unless she asks for it. ...if there isnt any thrid person's invovlment in couple's kitchen then i think they will have less problems

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^ hain urdu speakers dictated ur friend? punjabis r the most nosy and noisy ppl around. but they cook gr8. i like punjabi food better.

OK Farhanyu getting serious now. its no big deal. these issues r trivial and bigger, much bigger issues arise in marriage.