Re: problemmmo
she can always live with her in-laws initially and then they can both move into a separate house.
i think she should speak to him very politely and nicely that she wishes to have her own house which she would like to decorate. or may be she can even show him some house pictures saying that after marriage i am planning to buy a similar house for us two. he will either say yeah sure or will question her that you have plans to live in a sep house. and to that she can say what she wants.
waise before the engagement she should have told her parents about her concern so that they could have told the guy/parents…anyhow still not late.