Re: Problematic?
well that’s their situation, their’s was a “love” marriage, but this whole insult to family honor happened even before their marriage, the two still decided to get married even if the two sides didn’t get along, it’s never really a good sign when the marriage starts out on a bad note. the guy was very emotionally unavailable after marriage even if he said that they would make it work together, there were other things in the guy’s personality that caused more problems, anger issues and not very compromising. anyways, i felt really bad for this girl and what she went through. obviously i don’t know every detail of their relationship and what else went wrong.
your guy probably loves you a lot and he might even try to change so he can get along with your family just for your sake. and since you aren’t really that close to your father then i’m guessing you’ll be able to handle all this in the future. Hope the love between you two lasts
on GS we don’t know your father or you or your guy well. think it through really hard before you make any commitments and dont make any decision purely based on emotions. Dont rush things, see things practically and see if there is a strong foundation to your relationship with this guy, if there is great, it just might last.
May Allah give you strength and hope he looks over you two