Re: Problematic?
thats fine
if you two trust each other so much and want this to really work out you >>> there are creative ways to make that happen, but anyhow thats not the point of this converation
so 2 weeks, not to far away all the best (Y)
oh im sure no one will disrespect one another because the intent to disrespect was never there from both sides. Its more like a grudge and a ego hit in the past that is making the whole process a bit rough when it should have been smooth. My dad has finally said yes but by nature he is prone to asking questions to help himself develop trust for this family (we have had a few marriage related frauds in the family). His dad takes this offensively. The guy is worried that my dad will say something that will make his dad get pissed even though he has promised to him that he will not be the one to start trouble he is worried because thats his nature. Im worried that my dad will not stop asking questions till there is an official baat paki. They are meeting in about 2 weeks and thats why we both are worried as to what will happen. If either one of them are unhappy it will become close to impossible to convince them.
I have never said a word about him or his family whereas he has about mine. He has already mentioned disrespect to his father in my dads attitude but he realizes that it is not my fault. I told him that if he doesnt like him then he doesnt have to meet him after shaadi or what not but i would not allow him to disrespect him and he would never stop me from meeting my family
Im concerned because i would like it to be a happy ending by all. I wish for them to like me and my family and not hold a grudge because that could lead them to mistreat me in the future. I am almost sure my guy will protect me i trust him that much but i dont want to have any negative vibe around us that could affect our relationship