Problem with Paki parents moving abroad...

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Re: Problem with Paki parents moving abroad…

@Omer259

I am the one to launch ad-hominem attacks?. Did you not read the whole thread. I have not launched a single personal attack on anyone until now. I have been called narrow minded, like a FOB girl who visited one of the poster’s house and all sorts of nonsense. I am just expressing my view, it doesn’t mean that you have to attack me personally.

It is interesting that not a single desi male attacked me, it’s all frustrated unmarried ABCD girls who are venting their anger against males who marry girls from Pakistan, by attacking my viewpoints supporting those males. You would never see males attacking each other like that for a view point because we have mutual respect for each other. Also it is interesting that no single male here agrees that he or his family moved to USA to become Americans. I understand that you are angry at males marrying Pakistani girls based in Pakistan, but when you show your true cranky self, you are merely confirming that stereotypes that no matter how much Pakistani values your partents have taught you, you are still very different from an average Pakistani girl from Pakistan

I’m not old enough to get married or consider getting married. I’m certainly not old enough to be some frustrated ABCD fretting about living life as a spinster.

That being said, I’m not that bothered about men marrying girls from back home. It’s their preference. When have I made fun of or insulted girls from Pakistan? The only thing that really bothers me is when men who marry girls from back home have the reasoning that girls here are slutty.

It doesn’t matter to me if I’m not like ‘an average Pakistani girl from Pakistan’. As long as my parents are proud of me, as long as I’ve strived to maintain the values they’ve given me, as long as they are content with the decisions I’ve taken and the life I’ve lead, as long as I’ve sticked to my principles and my sense of right and wrong, I see no problem in not being like ‘an average Pakistani girl from Pakistan’.