Problem with Paki parents moving abroad...

[Reha]

Re: Problem with Paki parents moving abroad…

@Omer259

It is interesting that not a single desi male attacked me, it’s all frustrated unmarried ABCD girls who are venting their anger against males who marry girls from Pakistan, by attacking my viewpoints supporting those males. You would never see males attacking each other like that for a view point because we have mutual respect for each other. Also it is interesting that no single male here agrees that he or his family moved to USA to become Americans. I understand that you are angry at males marrying Pakistani girls based in Pakistan, but when you show your true cranky self, you are merely confirming that stereotypes that no matter how much Pakistani values your partents have taught you, you are still very different from an average Pakistani girl from Pakistan

I think the problem is the image you seem to think holds true of Pakistani families living abroad. You constantly assume that people here lack something or are missing something when its never the case. I dont know ANY families that go to Pakistan after achieving a level of success here. No one is any rush to leave this place and its because this is home to them now.

Also, what makes you think anyone from here wants to be an average Pakistani girl from Pakistan? I would never trade places with anyone else - Pakistani or not - because my life here is Alhumdulillah great. What exactly am I missing? Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

I would never want to be anyone else…I think most people hate it when men assume Pakistani families here have no morals and values. It makes me want to believe all the rumors about Pakistanis in Pakistan having no sharam or haya anymore. But I dont. I know there is good and bad everywhere.