Problem need a solution :(

English_lady · February 2, 2011, 1:32pm

Re: Problem need a solution

Count your blessings. Look at the positives in your life. You have a child. you have a boutique/outlet/business, right? You need to stop overthinking everything…keep yourself busy. If the problem is that he ignores you, well then ignore him and give him space. Let him come to you, give him a chance to miss you.

It seems like you have a good relatinoship with your MIL, cherish that!

Your husband took you to to Paris/Italy/London and you guys had a good time–do you know how many women would kill for a trip with their husbands? I know women whose husbands will have a sour face with them whenever they’re with their families or even going otu to do groceries…

I’m not saying your’e being ungrateful or na shukri but you say yourself that you are emotional and sensitive and he’s more practical.. this is the most common problem between two people of these natures. I know it seems like he’s being really cold and he probably is but again that’s part of a practical person’s nature, just like you have faults, so does he.

Just stop overthinking, and enjoy the moment, over time it gets easier.

Stop thinking, “it’s not fair” if you’re the one who has to work at things and it seems like he doesnt. Often times when the woman makes the genuine effort, the man meets her half way. It may not be fair, but thats life.

DITTTO WELL SAID.