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Just the fact that he took you on a vacation to all those places says a lot it says that he really does care about you…what you have to remember is that guys aren’t always that great at showing how they always feel and like most of the girls said just give him his space and he will in turn come to you
wish hubby would take me on a vacation to all those places :hinna:
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Its true, women can never be happy.
Seriously speaking,
OP needs to seek help from close relatives or perhaps even a therapist.
As she mentioned the word depression, that might just be true.
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why women tend to think of ‘leaving’ at every little problem that arises? ? like firenze said…u need to grow a brain or something…there was this other thread where there was issue over a BIDH and everyone goes nuts and suggest the poster to stop it,run away, break rishta…
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Don’t leave him, that’ll be too easy for him, stay with him and make his life hell! Make him pay! Make him wish he would’ve given you the attention you deserve! 
Just kiddin’. You talked the whole thing out with him, told him how you felt, was honest about what was going through your head - you did the right thing. And, instead of working it out with you he got hurt, which makes him sensitive don’t you think. Still you apologized to him and he didn’t reciprocate like he should have. You did all you could, you’re a good wife, now relax. You can’t force people to feel how you want them to feel. You can just do your part as a good wife and enjoy your life. He’'ll come around himself soon 
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I am sorry to say but lady u got no problems !!!
I assume you are so attached because you no longer have your dear parents at your side and must feel extra attached to him and why not after reading your post he sounds amazing to me. I'm sure all of us would too. To loose parents when you are so young is not easy. But bhagwan ki daya se you have a wonderful family of your own.
I think you have a " ameeron walli bimari" which is boredom.Why don't you get a part time job , do volunteer work or blog. Just because your married doesn't mean you gotta spend every sec with each other.
It might be a bit dis-heartening to read all the comments here , but some time you need other people's views to realize that the problem is not with the other party.
Leaving him an absolute no-no because there is nothing in your post that suggests than he is a bad husband or father. To earn a living is not easy. Your husband is providing generously for his family and you must appreciate that.
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The guy took you to dream vacation and all you did was nagging and crying.... i feel sorry for your husband
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Count your blessings. Look at the positives in your life. You have a child. you have a boutique/outlet/business, right? You need to stop overthinking everything...keep yourself busy. If the problem is that he ignores you, well then ignore him and give him space. Let him come to you, give him a chance to miss you.
It seems like you have a good relatinoship with your MIL, cherish that!
Your husband took you to to Paris/Italy/London and you guys had a good time--do you know how many women would kill for a trip with their husbands? I know women whose husbands will have a sour face with them whenever they're with their families or even going otu to do groceries...
I'm not saying your'e being ungrateful or na shukri but you say yourself that you are emotional and sensitive and he's more practical.. this is the most common problem between two people of these natures. I know it seems like he's being really cold and he probably is but again that's part of a practical person's nature, just like you have faults, so does he.
Just stop overthinking, and enjoy the moment, over time it gets easier.
Stop thinking, "it's not fair" if you're the one who has to work at things and it seems like he doesnt. Often times when the woman makes the genuine effort, the man meets her half way. It may not be fair, but thats life.
DITTTO WELL SAID.
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Hey Thank you all reading all your posts made me cry it out and i feel so lite Mashallah. i think i have had a difficult and lonely childhood and i am gonna go for some therapist and deal with my depression as i just take things negative :S i hope it all works out and things get normal awww thank you guys i have actually realized a lot by reading all your posts :)
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^Whenever you feel depressed think of those who have very little and still content, thankful and enjoy life.
This does not mean stop struggling to achieve more but it means,** 'there is** always something we have in our posession to be thankful.
Be happy!
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Hey Thank you all reading all your posts made me cry it out and i feel so lite Mashallah. i think i have had a difficult and lonely childhood and i am gonna go for some therapist and deal with my depression as i just take things negative :S i hope it all works out and things get normal awww thank you guys i have actually realized a lot by reading all your posts :)
way to go lady! feedback taken very positively and constructively...
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Things will be fine…Inshallah. 
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mehroze - uv got common problem that newly wedded girlz have .. thts tht they realize then that they need other ppl in their life except for the husband .. get some friends .. join a club .. take yoga classes or i dunno pottery or drawing class .. smthng ur intrstsd in n in whch u hv talent in .. it can help .. seriously lik guys need space even if they like they need space .. some r jus like tht anywayzz they only run after u n go crazy for u when u hvnt said i luv u also or i do .. as soon as they find out u like them back or ur married theyl start to ignore u ..