I see your point about helping out.
myabe b/c I have not yet ever hosted a dinner or invited anyone over for that matter, that I choose nto to help. Or maybe at the time it was more of a situational thing and has nothing to do wiht values etc. But good point about helping out
Otherwise , u know what, let me scratch what I said in my last post, because I"m making it sound like I'm the crazy one and everyone else is a farishta--when I know deep down thats not true at alll.
oh haha sorry i didn't mean it like that, but you take the criticism with grace. You sound perceptive and caring, especially since you are receptive to people's comments. and i'm sure you;re not the spoiled or too "princessy" type- because a spoiled person is oblivious or too arrogant to even think along these lines like Niksik said. I just get really annoyed with this one girl I constantly have to deal with who proudly says "Oh I never do anything" and I was just venting. Not doing chores isn't a sign of being more "western" or affluence (in america) as she believes.