But most girls have certain points that aren’t as important and they’re willing to compromise on even if they do have some sort of rough ‘list’ of attributes in their head eg. family background doesn’t bother me anything like the other stuff that was mentioned and let’s be honest when it comes to ‘preferences’ at least the girls don’t tend to be outlandish and totally delusional (eg a dark girl demanding a pale as snow guy or those who’ve been in multiple relationships demanding a virgin)..
When it comes to ridiculous requirements desi guys win hands down.. We’re attacked for wanting certain basic things (independent, smart, liberal isn’t exactly rare or difficult) while the boys are encouraged to be as picky as possible and look for traits they don’t even have themselves..