Prince charming......but not

Prince Charming.

  1. Well settled.
  2. Educated
  3. Liberal
  4. Good family
  5. Your parents love him
  6. Hell your dog/cat/parrot loves him
  7. Independent
  8. Smart
  9. No previous hang ups regarding women or feminism

Yet…you are not physically attracted to him. At all. On any level. No way no how. No possibility of it in the future even if he gets plastic surgery.

Is that a marriage proposal you would accept?

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seriously???

this isnt funny :barbie:

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It’s too late :snooty:

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LOL! I find your first response better Anya. It was hilarious. What no guppan wants to give an answer?

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Well how would you know 5, 6, and actually many of the other points until you actually married him? So really, you can never have a "perfect" situation. Even the physical attraction thing can change...well actually I have no experience in the area of arranged marriages so I can't say.

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No.

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But, more important than any of those, does he wear socks with sandals - that's a deal breaker you know.

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is the bold part mutual meaning does he feel respect care about the girl's parents too. is sense of humor included? he's smart but is he arrogant about it? are his parents mean and arrogant or totally down to earth. all these other factors are important. if all these other things are ok and as long as he respects and loves the girl, great, i think the mutual love can happen, why not :p

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DING! My prediction is coming true!

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the guy seems wonderful what’s the problem, as long as he’s not arrogant about himself

:omg: cute

yea and number 9 too

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No physical attraction , No can Do !

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If there is chemistry and mutual interests there, a not so settled guy (with ambitions), an ok-looking guy would do. If there is chemistry there, how one looks would dissolve away in the attraction created by mutual interests.

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Okay perfect. You ladies shall form the sample group. A microcosm if you will of the general guppan psyche. Now take the same list and we amend it.

  1. Handsome
  2. Liberal
  3. Good family
  4. Your parents love him
  5. Hell your dog/cat/parrot loves him
  6. Independent
  7. Smart
  8. No previous hang ups regarding women or feminism

But he is not educated and in that regard not well settled. Lets say he is a high school drop out? A hippy. He spends his time being the struggling artist with no real foundations or responsibilities, no steady income. No place of his own and the prospects of him getting a 9 to 5 job are zero.

Would you accept this marriage proposal?

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Nah!

a hippy, dropout, struggling artist! In short; a loser

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***CM is collecting data for his book

Woman : An Unsolved Mystery ***:sheyn1:

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Can he afford Graff, Bvlgari, De Beers, Birkin, Hermes and Dior?

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No. Couldn't sleep with someone I wasn't physically attracted to..

More fish in the sea..

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Goddess

  1. Well settled.
  2. Educated
  3. Liberal
  4. Good family
  5. Your parents love her
  6. Hell your dog/cat/parrot loves her
  7. knows how to cook/clean well
  8. Smart
  9. No previous hang ups regarding men or jerkism

Yet....you are not physically attracted to her. At all. On any level. No way no how. No possibility of it in the future even if she gets plastic surgery.

Is that a marriage proposal you would accept CM?

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CM, you left out one very basic item in the list that should make up for many missing

  • With expired Mom

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Hell yeah. In a heart beat. Life and marriage is so much more than just based on physical attraction.