Re: Pressure to have kids
I get that but you know what really sucks then? Come Mother’s day or someone’s baby shower or anything that is celebrating motherhood, people look at you like you are a bechari, poor woman who is not fertile enough to get pregnant right away. This is what bothers me. I never give an explanation for anything I do anyway but it’s the looks that get me soo annoyed. I am childless by choice by the way even after 5 years of our marriage. We are finally getting to a point where we feel ready. I have made it very clear to my immediate family and my inlaws that if this topic comes up, I am going ignore them. They got on my nerves a few times so I just had to tell 'em off.
I hyperventilate just thinking about being pregnant and to talk about it with someone makes me want to punch someone in the face.