Pressure to have kids

[Reha]

Re: Pressure to have kids

@ruby17

Thanks all. The issue I find with saying “allah ki marzi” is mostly people assume you are having difficulty conceiving and start asking questions like whether I have been to see the doctor or offering their sympathies which reaaaaally irritates me!

Since you don’t have kids…you do realize they’re assuming that anyway right? By your own admission its been a year since you got married with no babies and your family already finds that strange.

And…its not really your issue what people assume about you, is it? Is it something you can change or stop with your hands? Probably not.

Lastly, be honest. Say…yes I have been to doctor and he says all is well with me Alhumdulillah. If they offer sympathies…simply take them and respond with “ji ji bass aap dua karein…acha ye batayein ke biryani achi hai? Dekhne mein to bohot achi lagrahi hai”.