Re: Pressure to have kids.
The whole issue of when to have a baby is completely between you and your husband. My advice would be not to discuss ANYTHING with aunties (i.e. like you guys want to wait until financially stable, etc.). When they ask me if I'm preggers yet, I just smile and say no. If you tell them a reason, they will gossip on it, and offer you advice regardless of whether you asked for it or not. And its such a personal issue anyway, that I think its better left between the husband and wife.