Re: Present incriminating evidence
Tell her.. either thru and anonymous call or email.
if it were one of my daughters (even though i dont have kids yet) im sure O would appreciate any information of this sort given to in advance before anything was 100% -
something similar happened to a friend of mine.. but in this case it was the girl that had the problem of going out with guys.. drinking.. clubbing without her parents knowing.. the guys friend saw her one day and told the guy.. provided him with pix and til' this day he thanks him for the info.. infact i even saw the girl a mnth ago at an eatery in Toronto with another guy.. and i just shook my head in disappointment, cuz the guy was a GEM of a person..
so if men out there wont accept a girl who goes out and does things why is it right for a guy to be able to do that and get away with it? For him it might not be such a big thing.. lekin ye aadat aisi nahi hai jo asaani se choote and maybe there is alot more about him that isnt even known! So why let the family go through the pain of having their daughter hurt after the marriage when it can be totally prevented before hand.
i hope a right decision is made.. its not easy but its worth it.. and even if the girls family doesnt accept it at that point in time.. they might thank u for your honesty and forthcoming in the future..