Presence of 3, 4 ot 5 marriagable sisters

[Ashy2010]

Re: Presence of 3, 4 ot 5 marriagable sisters

@Paheli00

Ok this scenario is different. There is a MAJOR difference if the guy HAS to support the entire family b/c of a total lack of money on their part…versus where he feels obligated even though the parents/sisters have their own money.

The bottom line would be that I would not marry a man who’s not willing to make his wife/future children his 1st priority. What if something happens that prevents me from working? What about when we have kids and I want to stay home and not work? In the case where the family has money but the guy just feels “obligated” to spend his money on them…then the only way I’d consider his proposal if if HIS income (and his income alone) is enough to support his parents, sisters, and a wife/future kids. I would never want to be in a situation where I can’t stay at home with my children b/c my husband feels “obligated” to support his parents/sisters despite them having their own money.

Hmmm… So I am not being unreasonable in my thinking as other girls can have similar thinking. I was being embarassed if I was to reject such a proposal. Of course I will definitley want to support my husband in every thick and thin. But earning forcefully so that he can meet his family ‘obligations’ would be tiring for me since I will need to bring up my kids also.