The scary part is that I could actually see some folks doing what RV was suggesting.......
i dun think any sane person wud resort to this kind of answerin back. this is pure torture!!!!
Re: Pregnant.. my MIL said the nastiest and hurtful thing !! Dunno how 2 take out ang
ok mods, i got all my answers. the thread served its purpose :) please close this thread. thanks
Re: Pregnant.. my MIL said the nastiest and hurtful thing !! Dunno how 2 take out ang
Another crybaby daughter in law thread. When will these ever end?
Re: Pregnant.. my MIL said the nastiest and hurtful thing !! Dunno how 2 take out ang
She came here, didn't name names, considered all we said to her - and some of it was harsh - and then admitted that she overreacted and needs to move on. What's "crybaby" about that? I would call that maturity.
This is a forum for relationships. These are the issues that come up. We all need help dealing with them and there's nothing wrong with asking for help.
Re: Pregnant.. my MIL said the nastiest and hurtful thing !! Dunno how 2 take out ang
SEEF, GO GET A LIFE. perhaps u have nothin positve to say than what u said.
Re: Pregnant.. my MIL said the nastiest and hurtful thing !! Dunno how 2 take out ang
n yeah mistral thx for the support :)
Man, I almost fainted from a heart-attack at how seriously my previous comments were taken when i had clearly stated that they were were meant as a joke and NOT a serious suggestion. Hehehe :)
My point was to (in a funny way) to illustrate that it's so easy for us to find a scapegoat for our problems and not even think about our own possible roles in a situation. For example, it's natural to feel embarrassed about a fire especially if you are the hostess as you want to make a positive impression. It's easy to blame the guest for the fire. But it takes courage to reflect on how that fire might have been prevented or if any carelessness from YOUR OWN end had played a role.
People like Mall's MIL.......when things go wrong.........are neither mature enough to contemplate individual responsibility in mistakes.............nor are they willing to leave things on Allah. They just want to point their finger at someone else. Wars and even genocide.....let alone Saas Bahu khich phich...... has taken place because of this mentality.
My earlier post was meant to hypothetically switch things around to show that an unfortunate situation can be viewed from another angle as well. I had assumed that the first line of my post which said "just trying to lighten the mood"....would imply from the GET GO to the reader that the "suggestions" contained were not being seriously advised. (Now matter how deserving the offender might be ;))
Re: Pregnant.. my MIL said the nastiest and hurtful thing !! Dunno how 2 take out ang
Is paklinks management thinking business? They should buy angry-daughter-in-law-links.com and choiee-moieee-bahooos-links.com too. Dont worry about he content, there is Ton available here :)
… lol that would be so mean haha but your post did make me laugh … i shudder to think what would happen if somebody actually did that hehehe
Is paklinks management thinking business? They should buy angry-daughter-in-law-links.com and choiee-moieee-bahooos-links.com too. Dont worry about he content, there is Ton available here :)
It's too late to think business.......you guys would never pay for membership here.....LOL