yes, i know u didnt read all the posts cus if u wud have u wudnt have said i m jealous of my SIL. sadly, thats not the case. i guess u still dun understand the whole root of the prb. and yeah as i said in my post she was nikhafied only so no kids obv. thanks anywya
i hav read all posts now. Actually Mall in my eyes there's no prob. the prob is in ur pattern of thinking. old ppl say all sorts of things. these "qadam" sentence is not very uncommon in pak. learn to avoid negative comments. even if u say u r not jealous of ur dewrani ur posts show clear insecurity u r feeling from her addition to family n ur mil's affection towards her. Remember she's new so mil is feeling more excited abt her. once she becomes part of house mil will become more settled n find faults with her too.
also as for ur hubby i think he did a wise thing in agreeing with his mom. there was no point in arguing or ruining moods. i'm sure he never thought u were bad qadam or something but just agreed to keep things smooth.
i feel u r young n very emotional. try to control negative emotions n don't get mad at petty things. not good for ur or ur child's health.
One more thing Only YOU & ur Husband know that u were not trying to concieve for so long but ur family doesn't know abt it. So ur ils must b thinking"koi baat hai jo ab tak kuch nahi hova" its natural to think as such as they r unaware of ur private life.
Muzna i really liked ur point. yes sometimes agreeing politely is much more better for relation then answering back every time u diagreed with something.