Pregnant but not married

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@TLK

and that is exactly what my point is. I think that the lady chose an irresponsible way of bringing a child in this world (assuming that is an out of wedlock birth). What started as an act of irresponsibility will remain an act of irresponsibility. If she is from desi community, she has to raise the kid in this community. How will the kids be received by the society? Will he become an outcast? Will he become rebalious? Will it hurt his self esteem? Will he be ashamed of his mom’s act? Will he ever get married or will he decide just to sleep around cause that is what he learned from his mom?

That is why I said that her act was a selfish one cause she was thiking of fulfiling her wish without thinking of the consequences the baby is going to face once he grew up.

nope, this can not be compared to teen pregnancies, this is a grown up who has made a deliberate decision.

no one has to be stuck to desi community, there are plenty of 2nd and third generation desis who have zero to do with desi community, so she does not have to raise the child in desi community.

and the kid will be perceived by society just fine, its the desi lil fragment which may be hostile to the child, but then those holy people will be blaming the child for something that the child had no control over. Yes in general, desi community will be cruel but no one has to be stuck to desi community.

will he become rebellious? will he sleep around? so you are telling me all the guys and girls who dick around learnt it from their parents?