*All we have is hearsay...but we are expressing our opinions to the *
situation that has been shown.
The kid will one day or another will meet and come across desi ppl
and its not a nice situation to put ur child into.
but desi ppl and desi kids are crude towards kids of divorced ladies too,
so what do we do then?
its less than ideal, indeed but that solely can not be a determining factor.
I knoe plenty of 2nd or 3rd gen desis who really are not integrated with 'desi' community at all..especially true for ppl who have one desi and one non desi parent..
so to say that one has to be tid to the desi community, thats stretching it..