why? if teh kid is not born out of wedlock..then the morality issue is out
and yes kids in stable marriages are emotionally better than those raised by single parent households..does that then mean we tale away divorced or widowed peoples kids?
PS: evidence also suggests that single parents kids are better off than kids in a dysfunctional family where both parents are present..do we then assess all families for how dysfunctional they are and take their kids away.? ethically would it be right to leave kids in less than acceptable households..