Pregnant but not married

[Iconoclast]

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just to summarize there are 3 issues here

1. this is morally/religiously wrong..based on assumption that she was not married to the dude. Now had they done something of the sort..and ppl did not know..that concern goes away

2. family unit not being there..yep, but that is experienced by ppl who lose their spouse or get divorced. its tough but doable

3. societal acceptance- and as I stated much of the US society will not be bothered, desi community will be bothered and a factor, i mean a community which is vicious to a divorced mother’s daughters on marriage discussions would def be vicious to

let me spin it a diff way…lady has some issue, can not get married due to that issue, wants a kid, marries someone just to have a child, and then they split, is fully capable of supporting the child and give the child a good education and love, and is in a society where people are not going to be too bothered about her being a single mother…

..now what?

Still morall and ethicall wrong in m view. THere is evidence that kids in stable marriages are emotionall better than those raised by single parents.