Roxx
January 23, 2010, 12:52pm
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and that is exactly what my point is. I think that the lady chose an irresponsible way of bringing a child in this world (assuming that is an out of wedlock birth). What started as an act of irresponsibility will remain an act of irresponsibility. If she is from desi community, she has to raise the kid in this community. How will the kids be received by the society? Will he become an outcast? Will he become rebalious? Will it hurt his self esteem? Will he be ashamed of his mom’s act? Will he ever get married or will he decide just to sleep around cause that is what he learned from his mom?
That is why I said that her act was a selfish one cause she was thiking of fulfiling her wish without thinking of the consequences the baby is going to face once he grew up.
HAS to? Says who? You ? Assuming she’s not a wombed automaton and has her own free will, she can raise her child in any community of her choosing (hopefully one where the members are not more concerned with other people’s personal lives than they are with their own).