men do get roasted for these things too only problem is that its hard to catch men on this for obvious reasons. girls simply cant hide this although I agree that our society tends to look more harshly at women than men for this sin and we have to collectively do something about it. BTW, most of the time these type of news/gossips roamed around by the help of women with their judgmental comments.
btw, we can surly discuss Islam if you want to but I don’t count sleeping with bf/gf and doing the ultimate sin as a “mistake”. There are many warning signs before the ultimate sin that you have to ignore intentionally to do this what you call a “mistake”. Its not that you met someone at park and decided to sleep with them right then and there…