Pre-Marital Relationships

Lifestyle Relationships
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Do u really mean it?

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Since the dude's being upfront and honest, then i see no harm in asking if "he's done touba or not?". if yes, i would trust his word, if no, then why not? was he unaware that touba needs to be done or does he not realise how HUGE of a sin he's committed and feels there's no need to repent?

(I bolded the "no regret" part in the earlier post... if a muslim feels pre-marital relationships are a part of life and its ok, then i know that this wouldn't sit well with a lot of practising muslims and would be a deal breaker if they've kept themselves chaste)

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Yess i really mean it… of cource there are exp. Cases ( for exmpl …who cant get a gf due to wateva)

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[quote="“MissMalik, post:11, topic:291785"”]

Well, I am not talking about having a gf in past, I am saying, do you really mean that a guy who declares to be virgin before his marriage, is actually a liar??

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Mostly yess

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Yes yes... she is right. Take masturbation in to consideration.

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I don’t think so. In some cases but not everyone is the same. Gadho ghoron ko aik hi lakri se naa haanko.

[quote="“ekumunng, post:43, topic:279847"”]

Yes yes… she is right. Take masturbation in to consideration.
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seriously, you can’t differentiate between these two? You must know wht you are talking about :smack:

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Wat do u call a handsome, charming, loyal, faithful, honest n virgin guy????
Answer: A rumour

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Is someone not allowed to use sarcasm. :bummer:

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As I've said earlier, having a relatively promiscuous past reflects positively on a man's quality

You should feel good that he is choosing to be monogamous with you.

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please define "relatively promiscuous"

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I would call him a practicing Muslim if he belongs to Islam.

lol…oh okieeeee… :hehe: batana chahye tha naa :hehe:

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I think these are questions that you should straight up ask... tell him these are my values i.e. no physical relationship before marriage, islamic household to raise kids in etc. and ask him how he feels about these topics. If your values mean enough for you then regardless of the aging process I wouldn't compromise on them but thats your call. Only you can judge how important these values are to you not just for now but for the future as well.

That being said I know a lot of guys who spent their youth with loose social morals but once they were older, married and settled with kids completely changed. Some of them were honest about the change and others did it because that was the expectation from them.

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Do you want the meaning of 'relatively' or 'promiscuous'

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Wow.. talk about prejudices.

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Two things:
He doesnt regret it ... deal breaker in my opinion
You mentioned relationships. Just how many are we talking about. Were these relationships or just flings?

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MissMalik, what happened?

Rightly or wrongly most people don't regret past relationships, do they?

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both together.

:chai:

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I would call him a practicing Muslim if he belongs to Islam.

[quote="“ekumunng, post:40, topic:292006"”]

Is someone not allowed to use sarcasm. :bummer:
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lol…oh okieeeee… :hehe: batana chahye tha naa :hehe:
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Rumour means afwah it doesnt exist its a lie… so all these qualities in a man? Impossible!!! Muslim or christian doesnt matter

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:khumar: