Pre-Marital Relationships

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Re: Pre-Marital Relationships

@SpiceGirl

I can appreciate how some people are sincerely giving this guy the benefit of the doubt. And it may be the case that this guys going to change and become more committed to the relationship. However, if the roles were reversed and a woman admitted this to her fiance, would she recieve the same response or would she be labelled a wild one by her fiance and perhaps others??
I think the OP needs to listen to her gut feeling and stick to her decision n not be reminded of his past when things arent too rosy and its not easy. I personally think, he should show deep regret for his sins as to me that would exemplify his less likely to do it again. If he seems a bit ‘proud’ of his experienced ( for lack of a better word) I would wonder what this implies and what his views are about encountering such temptations in the future.

If the guy is apologetic about his premarital relation and the OP accepts him in marriage, she can have an upper hand in their relation for the rest of their married life as the guy will always feel a little guilty and be extra nice to her to compensate for his past sin.

If the guy however is proud of his past or doesn’t think much of it, my advice would be to let him find a girl like him who also has a similar past and doesn’t think much of it.