Re: Post-marriage..
And Mashallah se, a really good frind of mine from college, we are still in touch and Hubby has become friends with him as well. He is also married, so I get along with his wife as well...so that turned out really well. I mean to me he is like my brother...even though Islamically it may not be justified, but I do believe its in the intentions.
Don't want to pick on you Afro-Sheen but I don't buy in to this behen bhai thing. This is genuine affection between two people, may be not love as in love or anything sexual but some love and affection, and should be acknowledged as such.