^i don't have to help my opinion coz mine was formed after personal experience and that of many others. n its none of my concern if someone lives with inlaws or not. its a personal choice. but unless u hav lived with them( atleast for 5-6 months) u cannot judge how easy or hard it could be. i used to be unmarried once too and had high thoughts of families and living together but theories are always different from practicals. and situations can be different for different ppl but generally speaking living with in laws is way harder than living with ur own parents.
Your personal experience is only your own and limited to you. You had a bad experience but that doesnt mean everyone else did or will. I know of plenty of couples who live with inlaws and are doing fine and I also know of couples who arent doing all that great.
The point is, you dont know what anyone on this forum has been through and its none of your concern. Trying to disqualify someone else's opinion isnt very nice.
As for living with inlaws being different from living with your parents...well...that is pretty obvious isnt it?