I** would never move out, i'd love to live in a joint-family.. I can't fathom the thought of my kids not being able to get love/attention by his/her grandparents.. I blv old people and buzurgs are a blessing around the house.. and i'm used to being around elders and taking care of them..** i'd like to continue after marriage too Inshallah.
No doubt there are many sacrifices u'd have to make.. as well as compromises.. I would never ask my husband to move out.. as I know how my parents would feel if my brother moved out post marriage :(
Most guys want to live with their parents..and it's usually the women that ask them to arrange for a seperate accomodation.
So true