Post marriage independence, privacy or abandoning your parents?

Re: Post marriage independence, privacy or abandoning your parents?

I would like to live with my inlaws for sometime after marriage, and i would work hard and making it work.

I like the joint family system.

For me an ideal situation would be to have my own bedroom and lounge with a tv and stuff but to have a joint family kitchen and dining room.

THe only thing im scared of, when i do get married, is my in laws telling me not to do this and not to do that.

I would still like to be able to spontaneously go out if i want to go to the gym or whatever.