possessiveness

[_paki_pride]

Re: possessiveness

Hey listen just try to avoid him for sumdays n let him no the basic reason behind it so that he knows where he is going wrong tell him that if he trusts u n really luvs u he should stop doing this....see how he reacts afta u avoid him fer a week

lolz
girl
thas wat ive been doing

in these past few dayz he musta called my cell more than 30 timez
ughh so i jus turned my cell off n wont turn it on 4 a realllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyy loong time now

lol the poor guy thinks am playin sum game with him
he thinks am testing how long he can stay without me
wtf
yesterday when i saw him i jus turned around n started walkin the opposite direction of him n he kept on callin my name...but i didnt turn around...then two of hiz boys grabbed me and took me back 2 where he wz at...lol they were strong...cudnt even get outta their grip...
then
he told me to come back to him , he aint gnna wait any longer , thinks maybe sum other guy is the prob.......wat the effin hell................

its gotten to the point where he said i either come back to him myself or he'll take me away

lmao
funny guy

[Shoor]

Re: possessiveness

lol the poor guy thinks am playin sum game with him

yesterday when i saw him i jus turned around ........ n he kept on callin my name...but i didnt turn around...then two of hiz boys grabbed me and took me back 2 where he wz at...lol they were strong...cudnt even get outta their grip... then

its gotten to the point where he said i either come back to him myself or he'll take me away

lmao funny guy

this poor guy has his 'boys' grab you and take you to him, and you find this amusing?

"lol they were strong...cudnt even get outta their grip", did you feel like lol-ing when they did that and when you weren't able to break free?

did you tell them anything when they "grabbed" you like that? did they listen to you? was there anyone with you?

does this sound like a scene out of a bollywood bhangra movie, and hence sound cool?

girl, all I can say is - if you're only deriving humour out of the situation, it's high time you stop. get a grip of things, and talk to someone sensible, wise around you, someone you like talking to, and have them talk to you.

if you still find this guy to be, 'a poor guy,' and 'a funny guy,' of course it's not going to get any better. if that indeed is what you want.

[canpaki]

Re: possessiveness

@case_study

actually, guys let go, quite remarkably forgetfully.
you girls, hang on to the chickens.
real men value themselves, and they don’t possess, but they respect women they come after.
why guys, am i right?

i agree…and i aint a guy .

bt how come i hvnt come across a guy like dattttt man..

[Afro-Sheen]

Re: possessiveness

Paki,

If the situation is at the point where you are stating, I would not be joking and getting a kick out of it. First of all this boy seems to have violent tendencies. Remind me again why you are with him? Remember if the bad traits outweigh good traits...you walk away! And in this situation (Seems like boyfriend/girlfriend rather) I would warn him that you'll call the cops. How did you just LET his friends grab you and forcefully take you to him? How old are you...im guessing 15 - 16ish??

[girly_girl]

Re: possessiveness

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anyway ur b!tchin at me in the post b4 this 1 really got me to realise that i did/do meet alotta jealous/possessive crazy typa guys

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paki pride - if you are seeing a pattern here then maybe some more introspection will help you. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship so you have to ask yourself why you're still in it? Sometimes ppl continue to stay in bad relationships b/c whether they realize it or not they are getting something out of it - not literally but on an emotional level. For example it can be low self-esteem issues and a person thinking they don't 'deserve' to be treated well. I'm not saying that this is your case - just a general example but I do think that asking yourself more questions could help you make better decisions in the future...good luck to you :)

[case_study]

Re: possessiveness

sis, as no other man upholds this and you sense this that means you need not to search for a better one. inshaAllah he will come to you on his own.

@canpaki

i agree…and i aint a guy .

bt how come i hvnt come across a guy like dattttt man..

[phoenix51]

Re: possessiveness

PP:

Men who talk with their fists are dangerous...if you have a sister...think...would you allow her to remain with a guy like that??

Whether he's violent toward you or others - it is all one and the same...the fact that he allowed two males to manhandle you shows a distinct lack of respect and a person with serious control issues...

You may find this situation funny, but talk to people who've been victims of violence and you'll find that it is no laughing matter...there are people who have been killed by their partners...you won't find their families thinking it was comedy...

[COCO]

Re: possessiveness

Sounds like an abuser..and control freak....simply keep away..i think he needs anger management classes. Mistakes are made but you can learn from this and leave this person. When someone behaves this way..it,s clear..what they can do in real anger situation.
I knew a sick possesive girl..once..she was so mentle..she would go crazy when her Friend would talk to anyone..it shows the true nature of a person.