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okay well..telling a group of guys off is one thing. **
**just punching one is another thing..and that also isnt good..

but paki...braking arms..and u said there was blood rite? that kinda crosses the limit BIG time....u hav to do something about this..u needa make him control his angerrr. maybe if u try to talk to him, he'll listen. and if he doesnt..thn DO something i guess.

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lolzzz, why are you being jealous :d

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he doesnt wtch " I Proud to be an indian " everyday does he ?? :cb:

onli kiddin bt maybe u shudnt stand around tlkin to other guys if u have ur man , as all men wud nt like their women to converse wid other boys for no reason his anger is reasonable bt d beating shows hes a bit on d xtreme side .. bt sinc eu love him so much n dun see nefin wrong den wt is it u wnt ppl to say???

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PakiPride...
What BS...You meet wastemen plain and simple...i dont know why people bother giving you advice quite frankly cos all iv noticed is you meet wasteman after wasteman and although you moan that they fight over you and are all possessive that is exactly why you keep them around cos it gives that fragile little ego of yours a little boost...just remember that the men you meet arent the finest London has to offer...rather they are Londons waste that pnly you and other childish asian girls get off on...

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Doesn't sound like a boxer too me, probably hit's the bag everyday but don't mean he's a boxer, the bag don't hit back, lacks the discipline the way PP describes him, can't be very good either, proper boxers can do serious damage & they know it so don't bother with the average guy on the street. Attacking a person who you know can't defend themselves against what you throw at them is cowardly.......not a boxer, more like a wife beater....take note of that point PP, for your own sake.

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man
u need to calm down
dont need to spaz at me
its like u never saw a girl make a mistake b4

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and 4 the rest of u peepz
thnks
really got me thinkin

i jus hope he wont go all crazy on me 2day wen i tell him its jus not gonna wrk
damn u guys
i feel bad doin this
but hey its 4 the better init

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Lol trust me im not annoyed...im simply stating something...
Heres the thing though you give the impression that these arent mistakes...the guys a psycho yet hes one of the finest guys in London...all im saying is that you start a thread by saying what a bad guy whoever your dealing with is and then you just reply by telling us how good the guy is...
You see how it sounds silly?...
I geuninely think you get off on guys fighting over you...

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no i said i DID make a mistake
so dont go all hatin on me
and what you mean who am "dealing" with
u make me sound like a drug dealer or sumthin like that
n no i dont think it sounds "silly"...i wz jus sayin the bad n good stuff abt him
evrybdy haz imperfectionz
so nuthin wrong in sayin the gud stuff abt him as well
anyway ur b!tchin at me in the post b4 this 1 really got to me
got me to realise that i did/do meet alotta jealous/possessive crazy typa guys
guess they aint worth it despite HOW effin gud lukin n sweet n caring n sensitive okk am gettin carried away again......

so i took ur pplz advice n it dint help.....infact i think itz gonna get worse
when i told him it jus isnt gonna wrk out 4 us, he looked soooo hurt omg i felt soo damn bad
and then i got kinda confused...coz like he was all quiet 4 like 2 mins or so...n then he jus started tellin me that he understands im too stressed and that i need rest n i aint feelin well ....he kept on hugging me n tellin me how much he loves me and that im only his and sayin that i shouldnt worry n evrythin iz gonna b alright and that i jus need to go home n relax..lol he was even offering to massage me.......wtf.......i told him no its over n he jus dusnt friggin understand..... he said i need rest n tommorow evrything will be back to normal.........lol then he personally took me home n told me 2 get some sleep........i shudda counted how many times that guy sed i love you....trus me it was scary

so im guessin hes in shock....and he cant get it thru his hed...how long is it gonna stay this way? i truly felt S-O G-U-I-L-T-Y 2day

naughty u know how u said that u wonder y ppl bother givin me advice
im wonderin too now
coz it aint ****ing working

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he properly loves u too much or he is insercure either one

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Lol to be honest it seems the only redeeming features that any guys you speak about is that they are good looking...otherwise they sound like fools...

The advice is simple...break it off...iv said this before to you...if it hurts them then so be it...

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about the boxing thing- its supposed 2 calm peep down or sumat an teach them 2 use their energy in that.
paki pride i hope u dnt mind me askin how old are you?

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i love how all her posts are abt the same thing haha

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actually, guys let go, quite remarkably forgetfully.
you girls, hang on to the chickens.
real men value themselves, and they don't possess, but they respect women they come after.
why guys, am i right?

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paki pride if u feel so guilty den dont do it , if he lovesu so much n u feel bad by breaking it off y did u first gt scared over his posessiveness n ask for advice , nw u gt advice u dun wnt to follow it ,

huni u truly r confused , i think u shud stay wid d guy

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... because guys never get into fist fights over me.

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don't worry your time will come too in next janam or so

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lol
nice advice ya all
i dun even wanna say wats been happenin thez dayz
lets jus say hez bein VERY stubborn...in many wayz

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hmmm, what a bad temper.
Some cant tolerate their women talking to strangers....

How do you handle if he is with other girls etc?
Its lack of trust and also weak selfesteem.

Id not hang out with guy and others watching or commenting....
Neither do such, which arises insecurities.....
Id hope and pray, he would be understanding when its co-workers or group-meetings polictics and studies......

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Hey listen just try to avoid him for sumdays n let him no the basic reason behind it so that he knows where he is going wrong tell him that if he trusts u n really luvs u he should stop doing this....see how he reacts afta u avoid him fer a week