possessiveness

some things never leave u…or in my case, some ppl
i find guys that r possessive hottt
till its like taken wayyyyyyyyy too far
n he goes crazy as in C-R-A-Z-Y
at first i thought it wz really sweet n all
but hez gone 4rm crazy 2 psycho
he cant stand seein me wit sum other guy
he’ll go ****ing mental n beat the **** outta whoever he sees me with as long its a guy
this guy is so jealous of any guy thas jus WITH ME…even if am jus talkin 2 him or sumthin az casual az that
yesterday i got freaked out …some guyz behind us were talkin abt me
n he got so pissed that he turned around n punched one in the face n thn started beatin them up
this waz happnin all right in front of me
honestly, i wz alil scared wen i saw him go all crazy on them
n wen i saw sum blood thas wen i wz really freaked out
1 guy’s lip got cut n another had a broken arm

i cant believe im sayin all this
hez starting to scare me

there should be a limit to jealousy n possessiveness right?

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Sounds like an abuser to me..soon that turns to the girl...he is bad news stay away...self esteem plays a major role in losers like that too!!

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nah
he wud never hit me
the guy loves me
y wud he hit me

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guys that r nice but not ur husband should be avoided
guys that r not so nice and not ur husband should be avoided
guys that r nobody should remain exactly that, a nobody.

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u just wait then...read traits of a batterer and then decide

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This person has issues with anger management …he seems to have absolutely no self-control and thinks physical abuse is “justified” and a proper “means” of getting his “point” across.


You urself say he’s gone from crazy to psycho…so i think u already know what the answer to this situation is…


DO NOT fool urself into thinking that ultimately this kind of abuse will NOT turn towards U …IT WILL , so before its TOO late and u are in a situation where NO-ONE can help U …My sincere advice to U is to LEAVE ASAP !!!


For ur “friend” i think maybe suggest anger management classes…just remember when U do suggest them…ur not within a 5 mile radiuis…:chai:


Oh and if he tells u he does it cuz he “loves” U …again NO it isn’t LOVe it is his “insecurities” talking…

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Some fools fighting for a woman...lol...

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PakiPride...
Not to be rude but you seem to attract wastemen...

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by the way, what's his reasoning for being possessive and doing all that?

Not that there is anything that could justify beating the crap out os someone but still does he consider it unislamic that you talk to other guys or just because of his insecurities that you might leave him some day if someone better came along?!?!

If he is your boy friend then I doubt it has anything Islamic to it since you guys are na mehram to each other anyway but if he is your husband then probably you guys need to talk more about it!

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Here we go again, another "I'm so hawt that guys fight over me" thread...

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^^ lolzzzz....

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Ok pakii...youve got to be careful..ur seeing a whole new side of this guy, and u never even knew it was there! so yeahh..be really careful cuz u never know..he might suprise u again...and maybe you should talk to him.

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yea ur right
he duz hav issues with hiz anger

buh how can u tell me 2 leave him jus like that
man i dunno bout that..

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i dun think hez a waste
nuthin iz wrong with him
hes 1 of londonz fynest guyz ive ever seen
and the list goes on.......

its jus his anger
n this wznt the first time hez beat up ppl coz of me either
when hes mad.....hes MAD

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lol its not a whole new side 2 him
hes been the jealous n possessive type ever since we met
when i barely even KNEW him he dint like seein me with any other guy n tellin me am only "his"

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he doesnt do boxing by any chance does he...

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b4 i answer can i ask y?

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because it could be the reason why he is so aggresive i know someone who use to be a right laugh but since he started boxing hes become to violent.....meaning he enjoys to kick the u know what out of people but the funny thing is he sometimes does it for the sake of releaving himself ......funny huh

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yh?
lol
thas funny
coz he LUVZ boxing
he trains evryday

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well i think thats the reason for his aggression try talking to him thats all i can say.....