^ yes..from the real life sotries i hear..its actually a lot of married men who cant stop porn.so how will marriag be a solution to porn?..
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^because usually they start watching it in their teens...when sex is not talked about.....parents dont engage the children (boys and girls) in a healthy conversation concerning the topic...they are looking for answers...and end up in the wrong place....
^because usually they start watching it in their teens...when sex is not talked about.....parents dont engage the children (boys and girls) in a healthy conversation concerning the topic...they are looking for answers...and end up in the wrong place....
Bingo! So here we have the answer. Parents need to come out of their shells and instead of labeling it as sometjing taboo, maybe they should have proper conversations with the children about what is right and what is wrong. What is right at what time and wrong at what time.
No matter what culture, what back ground you look at, marriage is not the solution for porn.
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The biggest mistake parents make is... not talking about taboos...and keeping hush-hush concerning topics on sex,mental/physical health...hygiene....friends...drugs and other important issues that a normal teen faces.....all they talk about is 'how many 'A' have you got...
once the children and parents have developed a massive distance from each other..they start labeling it as a generation gap...which is not true...because EVERY generation goes through it...
granted good parenting is hard....but at least they should try....and not give up by declaring teens as rebellious..and what not.
Bingo! So here we have the answer. Parents need to come out of their shells and instead of labeling it as sometjing taboo, maybe they should have proper conversations with the children about what is right and what is wrong. What is right at what time and wrong at what time.
No matter what culture, what back ground you look at, marriage is not the solution for porn.
The biggest mistake parents make is... not talking about taboos...and keeping hush-hush concerning topics on sex,mental/physical health...hygiene....friends...drugs and other important issues that a normal teen faces.....all they talk about is 'how many 'A' have you got... once the children and parents have developed a massive distance from each other..they start labeling it as a generation gap...which is not true...because EVERY generation goes through it... granted good parenting is hard....but at least they should try....and not give up by declaring teens as rebellious..and what not.
I don't have any kids yet, but inshallah I plan to follow this. I have already thought that I would be more friendly/open with the kids so that they can discuss any topic with me, rather than finding out about it from friends or online. Let's see how that goes.
Some people have mentioned that kids should get married at an early age. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?! They should get married when they are not even done with their education, have no career, and not even mentally mature yet?
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ok....getting married <16 = child abuse and exploitation. any parent that does that in 2008 should be shot dead.
what is porn?
what is porn same question????
If a Muslim commits a sin like this, it might not apparently hurt him or people around him, but it is the most hurting act for the one who had to go through a lot of pain for us.
Let us not do such sins and hence not hurt the feelings of the Prophet (saw).
If people didn't have even the littlest doubt about their faith, they would never commit a sin intentionally in the first place.
I wonder why all the sex/porn/dating threads are always so popular here.
Heyyyy how are you?
yeah i am good, buddy what u arguing abt..finish it man lol
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watching porn is waste of time and I cannot waste my time 
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watching porn is waste of time and I cannot waste my time
aahmed pointed out a great point earlier. He said, parents don’t educate their childrens in terms of sex. This is the problem. In a certain age both genders get attracted to each other. They want to know about each other.
Some go out and explore without comitting a sin their bodies and have sexual intercourse, but these kids don’t know they are sinning. They don’t know it’s not allowed. They think it’s normal, because they were born blind to the ways of mankind.
Mankind justified that, they’re ego justified that. The forbidden gaze, the lust.
We have to bring in Religion and especially the Qur’an.
“Qur’an speaks to men and says your wife is like a field to you. Whenever you want, go and spend time there.”
Now look at life, if someone comes to your land which you own and shows interest, would you sell your valuable land? You wouldn’t! If you consider Porn more valuable than your wife/husband, go for it. You haven’t understood a single thing…
Watching porn is not a problem of men only, alot of girl watch Porn. They play in these movies. Girls are horny as well. They get nailed and they like it!!!
While a woman can have sex for 3-4 hours, a men has problem to focus on sex after 3-4 times he “came” and they still dare to call us sex addict 
Two wrongs don't make a right.
Sometimes they do.
yeah i am good, buddy what u arguing abt..finish it man lol
I'm finished man....cheer up fella
^Out of majboori alright but at least one should not strive for it.
i have the same question :LB:
An animated movie with some rubber used :p
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It's not porn that causes people to get all @#$@$#'d up. I think those people are !@#$!@#'d up to begin with. It's like blaming violence on video games, or horror movies, you just can't. If people are going change their behaviour in society from watching video games, violent movies or porn, they are !#$!##!$#'d up to begin with.
Even the search for BOLLYWOD Pakistan is ahead of India.
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i guess its better for kids to be watching the stuff and getting that 'thrill' than going out and having sex before marriage...
its still haram though.
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whats the big deal, your not harming anyone by watching it, so go for it. And i think it's something fun to do w/ your husband!!
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Dont come here and tell me Men watch porn. I've studied in a school where girls have shagged every bloke in my class. And im pending for some odd reason. Well the fact that Girls also play a big part in porn. They also act with the guy. So you can't blame just Men because both women and men play in porno movies. Girls are way trickier they gaze men and give them these eye looks that drives us crazy to a point we want to sever our penis out of its place. Hey if you girls just keep your damn bodies coverd like islam says it wont be much of a problem. But you girls have to wear those thight skimpy skirts and tight shirts that your nipples are visible. WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSE TO DO THEN?
