Poor relationship with mother. How did you deal with it?

[Babybird]

Re: Poor relationship with mother. How did you deal with it?

@pinkalive

every1 giving advice not in favour of breaking ties and saying she is ur mother u cnt do that to her type thngs need to go study psycology of narcisit mother the role of scape goat and golden child and the role of enablers around them and wat it does to daughters of such mothers and can even effect the grandchildren.m posting a links down and u guys shd still google narcisit mothers and read articles to understand the situation. Characteristics of Narcissistic Mothers
plus as far as the advice goes m sorry as i cnt give any its hard to break ties with any narcisit rishtadaar in pakistani situations just do sabar and ask allah to reward u fr that

This rings very true for me pinkalive. Once I started to make sense of my anxiety issues the concept of narcisstic mother became evident.

I try not to wallow in the past but being a mother myself had made me reevaluate the trauma of growing up with a mother who was supposed to nourish their child.

Phoenixdesi- all my siblings have suffered one way or another. It’s not just me.