polyamory and guppies

[Deeba1234]

Re: polyamory and guppies

@Ashy2010

Pakistani law is not in accordance with Islam in many ways. In this case of wife’s permission, an addition has been made which is not required as per Islam.
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Pakistani law is defective in many cases. The permission of WALI of a girl is necessary at the time of nikah and nikah cannot be done without the presence/ permission of girl’s WALI here in Arab countries. However, this is not required in Pakistan. We continuously hear cases of court marriages in Pakistan where girl and guy elope and get married. This is impossible in Arab countries.**

In the Hanafi madhab a marriage is still valid if the girl marries without her wali present (the guy needs to be ‘appropriate’ etc).. it’s a cutural misconception that those of us who are Hanafis must have our parents’ permissions to marry our partners.. it’s strongly discouraged to go ahead without our parents’ blessings but not haram..

Many Arabs follow a diff school of thought.. none of the other madhabs allow it..

In regards to husband needing first wife’s permission it’s not necessary in religious terms.. but he’s required to tell her it’s happened.. to keep it a secret is haram..