^^ Top three posts: Pardon my ignorance but please explain what is so significant about hyderabadis and especially what does it mean by "hyderabadi married to a pakistani guy"?
i cnt say bout others but i interpret "hyderabadi married to a pakistani guy" as an indian girl of hyderabadi decent... from the state of A.P whch is in india... where the nizams ruled..... married to a pakistan decent guy and family....
and to answer ur frist question..... hyderabadis r significantly diff in der dilect... and mannerisms n culture.... its very diff from the rest of india itslef.... i mean the rest of muslims in india.... n wen compared to pakistani ppl its diff in leaps n bounds...our lehja... way of speakin urdu is very diff... its sorta all slangd up. and our culture is a take off from the nizami cutlre ..... i cnt say mcuh cuz i dont reli lvie in hdyerbad.. but its said to b more focused on mannerismn n conservative-ish. n hydis love to eat n talk n ve gatherings n ve gr8 sense of humour.. but the major differences to apkistanis come up in their way of speakin urdu and cultures and behviour n sense of humour... once u meet some hydis ul kwn hw they r n hw to deal wid em.... wel dts all i can explain or try to explain..... wil think more on this....