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how do you know if ur truly over someone?
is there a definite moment where you think “wow..im over him” ?
or is it a gradual thing that you don’t realize until much much later that you’re over a person?

True i also had that with someone and i thought i never would get over him but much later i realize that you are over him and yea it is a
good feeling.

yah but
how do u kno if ur over him???
like wats the defining moment?
that i dont know..:bummer:

I think that's depend erm.. i had it like i dont think much about him
or if i think about him that i dont had that missing feeling anymore
like i had before.

The defining moment is individual to each person, only you can know when ur over someone, dont force it. Speaking from experiance, i fell in love when least expected and got over him when least expected aswell, it happens eventually, jus hang in there.

Over someone? How can you be over someone you really cared about? The only thing I can think of is that you just get used of of not having an existing relationship, but you never really stop caring.

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*Originally posted by ashtray: *
Over someone? How can you be over someone you really cared about? The only thing I can think of is that you just get used of of not having an existing relationship, but you never really stop caring.
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only time will tell i guess..

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*Originally posted by ashtray: *
Over someone? How can you be over someone you really cared about? The only thing I can think of is that you just get used of of not having an existing relationship, but you never really stop caring.
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true...very true

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*Originally posted by lastknightess: *

true...very true
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bewafa, I am over you, go away.

Time heals all wounds.

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*Originally posted by ashtray: *

bewafa, I am over you, go away.
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first the headache and now this...I'm only human :(

There was a time when I was in love, which was a very long time ago and since us breaking up I have never even "seriously liked" anyone. Is this a sign that I am still not over her since I hardly ever think about her? Next woman I fall in love with will be Mrs. Fallenpieta, whoever she is.

i think ashtray was rite...u never stop caring about someone or not think of them anymore....u just get used to not talking to them and having the relationship you had before....everyone's telling me as soon as there' sosmeone else in the picture, i'll forget about him..hopefully it's true, but i don't know.....but if i've learned one thing, is that every guy is full of sh.it..no matter wat how many namazes he reads, how long his beard is, blah blah blah..

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Originally posted by Sara516: *
i think ashtray was rite...u never stop caring about someone or not think of them anymore....u just get used to not talking to them and having the relationship you had before....everyone's telling me as soon as there' sosmeone else in the picture, i'll forget about him..hopefully it's true, but i don't know.....
but if i've learned one thing, is that every guy is full of sh.it..no matter wat how many namazes he reads, how long his beard is,* blah blah blah..
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u JUST figured that out? jk :p u still might find one guy in a zillion thats nice..but errrmmm i think u r over him or "it" once it doesnt hurt anymore

Do what my friend does, jump from one guy to another. That way she forgets about the last one.

(Don't take it seriously)

^^ Best advice so far.

in that case..

how u doin ? :blush: :rotato:

you're pouring over the papers in front of you. you realize you're fully focused...you think..."this is weird...something is missing...what am i forgetting...oh mr-hot-and-sexy!!!!!. Oh well, I must be over him. Now what the hell do all these numbers mean? Oh fudgety fudge fudge, i owe my mother 28 dollars"

lol…i wish that was the case…:bummer:..but thanks for making me laugh

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*Originally posted by Sadiyah: *
Do what my friend does, jump from one guy to another. That way she forgets about the last one.

(Don't take it seriously)
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Yeah it takes your mind off one guy..but what happens when the bewafa returns.. you realise you'd give up thecurrentguy for teh previous and that the previous guy isn't worth goig back to either... sucky situation