^^ i guess when u have decided to get over someone they shud be no turning back.aik baar aizmayay howay ko baar baar kia azmana...
perfection is idealism and idealism is a dream which never comes true , at least in case of guys so if u are over a guy its nto the end of the world , you can find another guy equally gud . yeah but the process of breaking the habit of being with someone is really painstaking.
its true the previous guy gets out of focus when u find someone new, iff u didnt have a bad hit-and-run kinda breakoff, but one shud be careful in dat case too coz one kinda startes liking to talking to guys i mean here like every guy and stuff. sort of flirt kinda situation...
it also depends on how close or intimate ur relationship wwas wid ur previous guy, if too close it might take a while but time is the best healer..
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*Originally posted by fallenpieta: *
There was a time when I was in love, which was a very long time ago and since us breaking up I have never even "seriously liked" anyone. Is this a sign that I am still not over her since I hardly ever think about her? Next woman I fall in love with will be Mrs. Fallenpieta, whoever she is.
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I don’t think it’s a sign that you are not over her yet.
People tend to beautify their past gf/bf. We all do that, especially if that gf/bf was the one you met when you were relatively young.
There is no guarantee that she or he is how you thought s/he was now as a person.
Beautified past will look good to anyone’s eyes, maybe that’s all.
*Love a person who loves you, even if you think it’s tough sometime, give it a try, and you Will Be surprised at how that person could change your life.
Yeah it takes your mind off one guy..but what happens when the bewafa returns.. you realise you'd give up thecurrentguy for teh previous and that the previous guy isn't worth goig back to either... sucky situation
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i am sorry i dont know the whole situation but I dotn know how honest that is..more like messing up ur life more, especially if u have a lot of self respect..either u love someone either u dont...although most guys r dogs, why should be stoop down to their level n use them to get over other ppl?
So is it hard to get over em if u still have a relationship, albeit not the same one as before? U think u can truly be happy with only 1 percent of a person as opposed to having 100 % of them?..
sara we need to hear the entire story which I am sure is personal and you can't share. But it's hard to give you advice not knowing what happened or how close you were or how long it lasted or even how you cope with such situations.
Time taken for a WOMAN to get over a relationship = length of relationship X 2***
Time taken for a MAN to get over a relationship = length of relationship X 1/4:D
** This rule doesn't apply to first loves, since women alomost never get over them.*
what really sucks is when you think you're over the person and you feel all smug and victorious, and 1-2 years down the line when you bump into the person the feelings come rushing back. That's when you feel like screaming and smashing your head against a wall. And then, you always wonder how the other person still feels.
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