Dekho Ishi88 aap ke dost aur people on gs forum (including me) will give you so many advices but eventually its you who has to decide for yourself what you will do and what decision you will make.
Listen to everyone but only do that what is in your own interest and what you think is best for you.
Dekho na you said keh tumhari friend ne kaha hai keh...your future hubby yeah kehta hai aur woh kehta hai...only YOU know keh woh kyaa kehta hai aur kya chahta hai no one else.
Again have a good and in depth discussion with your future husband and i think you should also go to Pakistan with your parents aur jaise bhee to talk to him on person. I think its not wise to talk only online and get engaged and married without seeing each other in real.
But of course its without doubt keh its wrong that you should ONLY listen to him and that only YOU should compromise and not HE. Sabh ko compromise karna parhe ga ji and again don't talk about this with him alone.....to be on the SAVE SIDE involve your parents and his family when you talk about important issues because although you both love each other life can be hard and selfish.
I have seen him in real life many timeS.............usay Reality mai daikhnay k bad he mai nay us say shaddi ka faisla kia hy
He definatley is one in a million......and i love him lyk hell
I wanna thank u 4 helping me out
apna keemti tym dainay k liy n keemti advice k liy bahot bahot shukria
May Allah(SWT) help u at every stage of ur life Ameen!
thanks once again :)