Well i really hope that he does not mind you financially helping him out warna to masla hai I mean he should not be that stubborn keh tumhari koyee bhe help kabool na karay. If you are willing to compromise so much for him he must do the same na warna to kaam nahin challey ga.
Its not easy to live in a joint family but its not impossible either. As long as your hubby is FAIR and does not take any SIDES then its workable but yeah to aap hi behtar bata sakti ho na.
But before doing anything TALK it out only THEN get married please. Talk about everything that bothers you.
One of my frnd told me k WOH sirf tum sy apni battain munwa raha hy
TUM apnay parents ko munao
TUM he pak mai settle ho us k sath
TUM he sab khuch kero n woh khuch na karay
She even said k...........I dun think k he even lovez U
This is heart breaking 2 hear :(
Do u really think this is the casE?