first of all you still have time pehle engagement ho gi na? you both will study? So abhee time hai.
Convince your parents that in Islam (i reckon your a Muslim) wife husband ke saath jaati hai and not other way around and as Muslims we should be careful with what we do but zindagi aur maut Allah ke haath mein hoti hai. Aur jahaan maut na ana hai woh ajayee gi.
Ofcourse you should not INVITE trouble but as i said if you are financially well off then you can have a pretty relax life in Pakistan.
For example suppose keh your future husband is now living in a town which is not save then talk to him and tell him because your parents are concerned and sincen they love their daughter so much and STILL are willing to let HER go to Pakistan he must also compromise alot and move to a saver and pleasant place...there are so many projects going on in Pakistan buy a house there believe me its amazing lifestyle when you have bought a house there.
U cannot compare it with UK maybe but still its temporary solution na.
Look when i say compromise then ofcourse SABH ko compromise karna parhe ga. Tell your parents keh Papa mama I am willing to compromise My future husband is willing to compromise His parents are willing to compromise .....so obviously they also have to compromise.
Ge pehlay engagment hogi n den shadi InshAllah!
He belongs 2 a middle class family............N there are very little chances of him buyinh a new house
Once we r married we will be living with his parents ina same house (3 bedrom house)
Once i asked him k whether heZ gona buy a new house 4 us after marraige or we goona live ina same house wid his parentz
he said 2 me k ainda aise baat na kerna :(
Mai hamesha apnay parents k sath he raho ga.......seperate gher mai rehna ya uk jana meray liy aik he baat hy
So i woz lyk mian biwi ki koi privacy b hoti hy :(
he replyed k privacy insan apnay parents k stah reh k b maintain ker sakta hy