Can he lead his life independent of his parents ? If he can then he is making a fool of you. If he cannot live with out their support then also he is fooling you. You have to grow up and see the things through. He is just trying to calm you down. If he loves you so much he should not be asking your help with coming up the ideas to convince his parents. If he has brains , he can think , he is mature , and he loves you too much he should have already told this girl and her parents about his love for you and his intentions of not marrying that girl. He would already be on his way to make arrangements to get married to you. If he cannot do all that then is not matured enough to get married to any girl. You should come out of this bad dream and start living the real life.
^ i agree