Its very childish to agree to marry another woman when you are not committed to it. And it was wrong on your part to continue to have a relationship with him even after you found out his 'baat had been pakkied'. Whatever the intensity of your relationship, you knew that an innocent girl was tied to him and so was her family and yet to continued in the relationship.
Now when he breaks it off, it's unfair to the girl, to her family and to this guy's parents. You were both immature about your options and are still not considerate of people are around you. Seriously, open your eyes and look around. It's not just the two of you in the world. There are parents, women and families effected by your childish behavior.
Quite frankly, that girl deserves better. You two deserve each other.
true yea. i missed that part. he started having a 'proper relationship' with you after he had agreed to marry someone else - not right. and you should not have allowed it to happen until he had broken it off and got himself sorted out first.