Re: please share tips.......
So stay away from those dark colours. Seriously, it only looks good on fair/gori girls or girls with different coloured eyes (not the typical brown most of us have).
Have you ever tried those 'roller' eye shadows by L'Oreal? They make a nice soft pink colour that DOES look good ... their silver/white eye shadow is nice too. It's not too heavy so it's great to wear during the day.
Mind you, I don't like eye shadow at all, but my sister is really into it and it looks good on her.