Re: please help
You left your job?? Of course their behavior is changing towards you - they think you’re coming into their hands.
You need to stop making your decisions as if you’re some saccrificial lamb for your family. Like someone said above, you have some choices. Leaving is one - your husband has even suggested you leave. The other is that you stop whining and start accepting that life throws lemons at you from time to time and make the best of it, which would involve that you start behaving nicely in your household. I agree, if your behavior towards them is the same way you talk about them on this forum, and believe me, people pick up on it when someone doesn’t like them, then that probably is adding to the problem, NOT making it better.
I hope your situation gets better. And I hope other girls learn from this. People should look up Chameli’s thread’s from before she was married and see how she met this guy. I’m sorry Chameli, you married one heck of a mama’s boy.