Can someone please guide me here. A friend of mine is 2 months pregnant, her husband in anger gave her three times talaaq in one go few days back. He direclty told she is not more my wife and take her back. Just wanted to confirm if this is considered as divorce or there are still any chance to come back
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what a dumbduck..
3 times talaq is a divorce. sadly.
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It really depends on what school of thought they follow because the opinion is divided. Some people don't consider the three divorce in one go as final divorce.
I think the real issue is whether her husband wants to get back together with her. If he doesn't then there is no point although she should force him to give her a proper divorce so there is no ambiguity when she wants to remarry. It would definitely be worthwhile to consult her local imam and a lawyer.
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Can someone please guide me here. A friend of mine is 2 months pregnant, her husband in anger gave her three times talaaq in one go few days back. He direclty told she is not more my wife and take her back. Just wanted to confirm if this is considered as divorce or there are still any chance to come back.
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Can someone please guide me here. A friend of mine is 2 months pregnant, her husband in anger gave her three times talaaq in one go few days back. He direclty told she is not more my wife and take her back. Just wanted to confirm if this is considered as divorce or there are still any chance to come back.
It's a divorce. Does she live in Pakistan? If so, God have mercy on her.
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I thought you can't divorce if your pregnant.
Why don't you folks check in with an imaam?
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What does specifically Pakistan have to do and rest of the world not have to do with a divorced woman ? :halo:
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This is a Pakistani forum o.O There’s not much stigma in the western world for divorced women in America, Australia, UK etc. There are more facilities that can help a single mother in western countries without family going “Poor thing”
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There are differing opinions on whether or not there is finality in this situation.
Please seek the guidance of an alim/imaam rather than asking for an "opinion" here.
While we have several learned members in this community that will offer you some decent advice and be able to back it up, the specifics, including the sect to which your friend belongs, will play a major role in how things pan out.
As for whether or not she is in Pakistan, it really isn't important at this stage. If the marriage was a turbulent one that involved any kind of abuse then for all we know God has already had mercy on her and given her an opportunity to escape.
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There are differing opinions on whether or not there is finality in this situation. Please seek the guidance of an alim/imaam rather than asking for an "opinion" here. While we have several learned members in this community that will offer you some decent advice and be able to back it up, the specifics, including the sect to which your friend belongs, will play a major role in how things pan out.
As for whether or not she is in Pakistan, it really isn't important at this stage. If the marriage was a turbulent one that involved any kind of abuse then for all we know God has already had mercy on her and given her an opportunity to escape.
I agree. I just hope that the woman is safe and will be safe with the child.
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Like Muzna said there are diff opinions..
I was taught the 3 talaaqs need to be spread over a period of time but others believe they can be done in one go.. Best ask her imam..
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Theoretically if 3 talaqs are given at one time then it is irrevocable. However, in her case the iddat period would last until the child is born and the (now ex) husband is responsible for bearing her expenses and providing for her needs (barring certain exceptional situations). Anyhow as others have suggested, it's best to present their exact situation in front of an aalim.
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to me its not talaq until you haven't signed the divorce papers but its very stupid of the guy to just throw away the word like that.
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Like Muzna said there are diff opinions..
I was taught the 3 talaaqs need to be spread over a period of time but others believe they can be done in one go.. Best ask her imam..
This is generally what we have been taught as well.
The reasoning being that the decision not be taken in a moment of passion.
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Im sure you cant divorce your wife in islam if shes carrying your child? Only after? :/
best to ask someone knowledgeable and legitimate like an imam.
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You need to find an Imam of the same school of thought as yourself.
From what I understand, you cannot divorce your wife while she is pregnant.
But there are different views so its best to check with an expert.
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you cannot divorce your wife while she is pregnant. After the baby is born if he still wants to divorce he must do the three talaqs again
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Wow :(
Does something within you not shatter when your spouse spurns you in this way? I imagine that you'd have to push the memory of those words each time that they enter your mind esp if you want to reconcile or if there's even any room for reconciliation.
O yaar kis ne keh diya ke you can't divorce when she is pregnant. It's a misconception
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Op, does your friend want to get back together with her husband? Or does he want to reconcile? Did he even know that she was pregnant when he gave the divorce?