blossom i think i need more info on the situation before i can advice you
yeah, i mean it's not me trying to be nosy, but it woudl be easier to offer advice if we know WHAT the issue was. y
From reading her post, I didn't think she was asking for advice, instead my understanding is that she was asking for prayers....
its heart breaking for her, and she poured her sorrow out, disclosing as much personal detail as she was comfortable with, in the end simply asking everyone to remember her in their prayers....
and any consolance she may be seeking is regarding this point (although if you read her post she simply asks everyone to pray for her ) --->
am thinking are any of my prayers being accepted when my own mother will not give me the time of day? How can my prayers be accepted.
and personally i think people can provide some consolance and advice regarding that point without any need for further curiosity or details...
Blossom, In Quran, it is repeated again and again that God is the greatest forgiver, greatest rehmaan and greatest raheem than any other ...yes even greater than our own mother/father....
so continue asking for forgiveness from both your mother as well as Allah...your mother has limits, but remember Allah has no limits when it comes to forgiveness and rehmat, so INshallah, Allah will definitely listen to your prayers if they are from the bottom of your heart, and if you are truly sorry for and saddened by what happened, and still continue to have respect and patience for your mother...
Maayoosi , is not a good thing, so dont be Maayoos thinking that your prayers are not being listened by Allah, they are, it might just take more time, and Allah may want to bring you even closer to himself then u currently are, before u start seeing your prayers answered...
I have never been too too close with my mom either but she puts up with me and our so so relationship more graciously than I do, so when i pray regarding my mom , i will definitely be reminded of you, and will pray for you too...