Re: Please help. Need your prayers.
blossom i think i need more info on the situation before i can advice you
blossom i think i need more info on the situation before i can advice you
yeah, i mean it's not me trying to be nosy, but it woudl be easier to offer advice if we know WHAT the issue was. y
Re: Please help. Need your prayers.
Theres no replacement for your mom, trust me, even if shes not listening to you, go to her and touch her feet , or beg for forgivness (even if youre not at fault) if you have to.
Re: Please help. Need your prayers.
Firstly, please never touch your mum's or anyone else's feet.
Parents can be very unreasonable sometimes but they do love their children(most of them) so talk to her, keep calling her, write her a letter...do whatever it takes. InshAllah, she'll come around and forgive you. I'll pray for you!
Firstly, please never touch your mum's or anyone else's feet.
not even for a massage?
blossom, Inshallah things will work out. I really dont know what else to say
Re: Please help. Need your prayers.
Aww damn.. I really hope and pray she forgives you for whatever happened, i’A 
blossom i think i need more info on the situation before i can advice you
yeah, i mean it's not me trying to be nosy, but it woudl be easier to offer advice if we know WHAT the issue was. y
From reading her post, I didn't think she was asking for advice, instead my understanding is that she was asking for prayers....
its heart breaking for her, and she poured her sorrow out, disclosing as much personal detail as she was comfortable with, in the end simply asking everyone to remember her in their prayers....
and any consolance she may be seeking is regarding this point (although if you read her post she simply asks everyone to pray for her ) --->
am thinking are any of my prayers being accepted when my own mother will not give me the time of day? How can my prayers be accepted.
and personally i think people can provide some consolance and advice regarding that point without any need for further curiosity or details...
Blossom, In Quran, it is repeated again and again that God is the greatest forgiver, greatest rehmaan and greatest raheem than any other ...yes even greater than our own mother/father....
so continue asking for forgiveness from both your mother as well as Allah...your mother has limits, but remember Allah has no limits when it comes to forgiveness and rehmat, so INshallah, Allah will definitely listen to your prayers if they are from the bottom of your heart, and if you are truly sorry for and saddened by what happened, and still continue to have respect and patience for your mother...
Maayoosi , is not a good thing, so dont be Maayoos thinking that your prayers are not being listened by Allah, they are, it might just take more time, and Allah may want to bring you even closer to himself then u currently are, before u start seeing your prayers answered...
I have never been too too close with my mom either but she puts up with me and our so so relationship more graciously than I do, so when i pray regarding my mom , i will definitely be reminded of you, and will pray for you too...
From reading her post, I didn't think she was asking for advice, instead my understanding is that she was asking for prayers....
its heart breaking for her, and she poured her sorrow out, disclosing as much personal detail as she was comfortable with, in the end simply asking everyone to remember her in their prayers....
and any consolance she may be seeking is regarding this point (although if you read her post she simply asks everyone to pray for her ) --->
and personally i think people can provide some consolance and advice regarding that point without any need for further curiosity or details...
Blossom, In Quran, it is repeated again and again that God is the greatest forgiver, greatest rehmaan and greatest raheem than any other ...yes even greater than our own mother/father.... so continue asking for forgiveness from both your mother as well as Allah...your mother has limits, but remember Allah has no limits when it comes to forgiveness and rehmat, so INshallah, Allah will definitely listen to your prayers if they are from the bottom of your heart, and if you are truly sorry for and saddened by what happened, and still continue to have respect and patience for your mother...
Maayoosi , is not a good thing, so dont be Maayoos thinking that your prayers are not being listened by Allah, they are, it might just take more time, and Allah may want to bring you even closer to himself then u currently are, before u start seeing your prayers answered...
I have never been too too close with my mom either but she puts up with me and our so so relationship more graciously than I do, so when i pray regarding my mom , i will definitely be reminded of you, and will pray for you too...
Thank you that was very nice.
Firstly, please never touch your mum's or anyone else's feet.
Why is this? Is it not allowed?
Re: Please help. Need your prayers.
That is a difficult situation. Just keep asking for forgiveness and I think that if she - despite ur begging for forgiveness - doesnt forgive u, then she really has a heart of stone and that u shouldnt be worried that u didnt do ur best. even Allah forgives one when one is sincere in asking for forgiveness.
Someone near to her should convince her that she needs to move on whatever has happened is past and u need to move forward all of u.
I have had a difficult situation in my family as well come years back and it made me apply for a job transfer overseas cuz I just couldnt take it anymore - despite me trying soooo hard.
The day I left for the airport, my mother cried so much and has changed ever since and she even helped to solve the situation!!
Sometimes one needs to show them the extremes so they understand....
I wish u all the best. have faith:)
Re: Please help. Need your prayers.
May things get better between you and your mumzy. Ameen.